The 27 Best Sex Toys for Couples in 2023, According to Sex Experts

“Eva is a hands-free wearable clitoral vibrator that has legs that wrap around the labia and keep it securely in place during intercourse,” says Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT, author of So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex. “What I love is that it provides a constant hum of light clitoral stimulation when worn that is amplified during thrusting when a pelvis meets a vulva. As so many intercourse positions fail to provide direct clitoral stimulation due to the distance between the clitoris and the vaginal entrance, Eva ensures pleasurable direct clitoral stimulation during intercourse.”

“I also really like the Fin vibrator from Dame, which is a wearable finger-tip vibe that really becomes a seamless addition to solo masturbation or partnered play,” Kerner says. “For those wanting to pleasure penises, Fin can really up one's game in terms of hand-jobs and blowjobs and playing with the addition of vibration.”

This isn't your ordinary carton of eggs. It's better. A Tenga Egg "is a disposable penis sleeve that is hilariously packaged," Kerner explains. "Tenga's eggs come in a variety of textures with bumps and grooves that really intensify sensation." Translation: Your handjobs will never be the same.

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“So many men are increasingly interested in prostate play (both solo and with a partner), and Aneros is great for newbies to this form of stimulation,” Kerner says. “Their Trident series is small enough to not be intimidating or overwhelming, but perfectly designed for a variety of types of male G-spot stimulation. Aneros really takes 'fit' into consideration, and they make a variety of sizes that really allows an individual/couple to progress from beginner to maverick.”

The original Vice was a recipient of the AVN “O” Awards for Outstanding Male Product, and the Vice 2 is only better. It has a total of 18 vibration patterns and four speeds, producing 72 sensory experiences. It also comes with a controller, which is where your partner can join in on all the fun. You can also leave it in while having sex with your partner, which will lead to an intense, full-body orgasm.

"The Chorus is great for P-in-V because it offers clitoral, G-spot, and penile stimulation all at once, so it provides enhanced sensation for everyone," says Justin Lehmiller, Ph.D., Kinsey Institute researcher and member of the Men's Health advisory panel. "Plus, it’s hands-free, waterproof, and has customizable vibration settings, making it a very versatile toy that can give you a different experience every time."

"The Moxie is a wearable clitoral vibrator that is held in place in your underwear via a magnetic clip," Lehmiller says. "This remote-controlled device allows your partner to send vibrations from a distance or discretely wherever you might be."

"Verge is a versatile toy that can add a new dimension to both solo and partnered play," Lehmiller says. "This remote-controlled, wearable ring stimulates the penis and perineum at the same time. Couples can use it for play from a distance or during mutual masturbation to add a novel element, but it can also be worn during intercourse to provide sensation for both partners."

"Molding a replica of your own (or your partner’s) penis can be a fun, erotic, and novel activity in and of itself," Lehmiller says. "In addition, the end result is something that can be used alone so that you can feel your partner even when they aren’t around—but it can also be used as a unique couple’s toy for those who want to simulate what a threesome might be like or otherwise experiment with having another penis in the bedroom."

"For more advanced P-spot stimulation, this strap-on can be a good choice for exploring the world of pegging," Lehmiller says. "You can add a bullet vibrator or swap out the dildos based on your comfort and preferences, making this a flexible and versatile toy."

It's a cock ring! It's a prostate massager! It's...the Simul8! "This prostate massager has a double penis ring attached, which provides vibrating sensations throughout your nether regions," Lehmiller says. "It can be used alone or with a partner during a variety of sexual activities and is worth considering for those who want combined P-spot and penile stimulation. It’s also waterproof and has dual-motor control to allow customizable stimulation for each area, thus allowing the opportunity to explore new things each time and adjust to your comfort and preferences."

A wand-style vibrator like Le Wand is easy to hold and allows you to access multiple parts of the body. If your partner has a vulva, Alicia Sinclair, certified sex educator and founder/CEO of b-Vibe & Le Wand, recommends using it while they're on top. This gives them the freedom to stimulate their clitoris and allow your hands to explore all parts of their body. "This position is great for foreplay, especially if you do wish to start with an actual lap dance," says Sinclair. (Bonus: Depending on the angle, you can also stimulate their G-spot.)

If you haven't explored the wonderful world of clit-sucking vibrators...welcome. This small vibe is easy to pair with vaginal or anal penetration, or as part of your regularly-scheduled foreplay routine!

We can't say enough good things about the Magic Wand, the classic sex toy that's been helping vulva-owners orgasm since the '60s. Between the cord and the size of the toy itself, it might be a little on the clunky side, but the sheer vibrational power makes it all worth it. You could even weave the size and power of the Magic Wand into a kinky Dom/sub scene: "You're clearly so horny, I'm gonna have to use this to calm you down..."

A basic bullet vibrator like this one from Lovehoney is an easy and affordable way to add clitoral stimulation to almost any penetration position. The small size makes it easy to slip between bodies—or into your pocket if you're taking it on the road.

Remember that blended clit/G-spot orgasm we talked about in the intro? This stainless-steel toy is another great way to make it happen. If you're going down on someone with a vulva, use this wand for some simultaneous internal stimulation. Pro tip: pop it in the freezer before you get down for some fun temperature play.

If you already bought Le Wand, you might as well splurge and buy the Le Wand Silicone Attachment, too. The attachment fits on the end of the wand and transforms it into a masturbation sleeve, so anyone with a penis can enjoy the best "handjob" of their life.

If your or your partner is open to anal play, using a small vibrating butt plug can be an awesome source of extra pleasure. “Start out by massaging gently with a finger or inserting something petite like the b-Vibe’s Novice Plug, which will add additional pleasurable sensations and pressure,” Sinclair says.

For those more experienced with anal play, this vibrating butt plug—also from b-Vibe—simulates the sensation of getting a rim job. Pro tip: you don't have to use it in your butt; some people find it pleasurable to wear a vibrating butt plug in their vagina. Consider it as a way to take oral sex up a notch.

A collar/nipple clamp combo is ideal for the couple interested in dabbling in some light kink. If either you or your partner have sensitive nipples, then they're a must. Applying a consistent pinch to your nipples is enough to make you and/or your partner orgasm twice as hard.