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24 Bondage Sex Toys for People Who Want to Get Kinky

Tie me up, daddy.

By Zachary Zane and
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Among the 10 most common kinks and fetishes Americans fantasize about, BDSM takes the number one spot. According to a survey by Kinsey Institute researchers and Men's Health advisor Justin Lehmiller, Ph.D., 93% of men and 96% of women have desired some aspect of BDSM before—and that includes bondage.

BDSM—an umbrella term that stands for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, and Sadomasochism—is all about consensually playing with power dynamics, and restraining someone with rope, cuffs, silk ties, or other kinds of bondage toys can be a great way to make that happen.

Generally, during bondage play, a Dominant partner will restrain a submissive partner to "make" the sub give or receive sexual pleasure. If you're newer to bondage and BDSM, maybe the Dominant partner binds the submissive's wrists with soft silk ties before trailing kisses all over their body. If you're more experienced, the Dominant partner could tie up their submissive using Shibari (i.e. Japanese rope bondage) techniques and edge them until they beg to have an orgasm... Or make them wear an open-mouth gag or a chastity cage as form of BDSM punishment... The list of fun ways to use bondage during sex is endless. (Pssst: Our 4-week kinky sex challenge is jam-packed with ideas for bringing bondage and other forms of BDSM into the bedroom.)

And even if you don't consider yourself someone who's "into" BDSM, you can still incorporate any of these toys into your sex life to spice things up from time to time. With that said, here are 24 of our favorite bondage sex toys.

  • 1
    Gag Lips

    Best Open Mouth Gag

    SOOCAN Gag Lips

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  • 2
    Curiosity Kit
  • 3
    Bondage Tape

    Best Bondage Tape

    Babeland Bondage Tape

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  • 4
    Enchanted Silky Sash Restraints

    Best Sash Restraints

    Sportsheets Enchanted Silky Sash Restraints

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  • 5
    Bound to Please Under Mattress Restraint

    Best Under Bed Restraints

    Bondage Boutique Bound to Please Under Mattress Restraint

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Best Open Mouth Gag

SOOCAN Gag Lips

Gag Lips
1
Best Open Mouth Gag

SOOCAN Gag Lips

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You can imagine our surprise when we learned these gag lips are marketed as "anti-wrinkling muscle tighteners." Sorry, but no. They are for giving blowjobs and only for giving blowjobs—specifically, where the wearer's mouth is forced to stay open.

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Best Rope

Twisted Monk Curiosity Kit

Curiosity Kit
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Best Rope

Twisted Monk Curiosity Kit

Credit: Twisted Monk

If you want to step into the world of bondage rope, this affordable kit is a great place to start. It comes with (1) 30' piece of rope, (2) 15' pieces of rope, EMT safety sheers (left-handed shears available, too), and a two-disc Getting Started DVD set.

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Best Bondage Tape

Babeland Bondage Tape

Bondage Tape
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Best Bondage Tape

Babeland Bondage Tape

Credit: Babeland

Want to get kinky on the quick? Babeland Bondage Tape is a binding miracle. It sticks to itself, but not to skin. Imagine the possibilities: mummy play, skin-tight fetish outfits, light-proof blindfolds—all with no pain (unless, of course, you want some).

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Best Sash Restraints

Sportsheets Enchanted Silky Sash Restraints

Enchanted Silky Sash Restraints
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Best Sash Restraints

Sportsheets Enchanted Silky Sash Restraints

Credit: Sportsheets

If you want to play with restraints, these silky sashes are a luxurious tether for wrapping wrists, ankles, gagging, or use as a blindfold.

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Best Under Bed Restraints

Bondage Boutique Bound to Please Under Mattress Restraint

Bound to Please Under Mattress Restraint
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Best Under Bed Restraints

Bondage Boutique Bound to Please Under Mattress Restraint

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Transform any bed into a BDSM playground with this simple restraint set. Pop it under a mattress, adjust the straps, and keep your partner's wrists and ankles exactly where you want them to be.

6
Best Blindfold

CalExotics Boundless Blackout Eye Mask

Boundless Blackout Eye Mask
6
Best Blindfold

CalExotics Boundless Blackout Eye Mask

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Credit: CalExotics

Slip a blindfold over your eyes, and feel your senses heighten as your partner teases and takes control of your pleasure. Then, take submission one step further by adding wrist restraints to the sexy mix.

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Best Open Mouth Hood

XR Brands Disguise Open Mouth Hood with Padded Blindfold

Disguise Open Mouth Hood with Padded Blindfold
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Best Open Mouth Hood

XR Brands Disguise Open Mouth Hood with Padded Blindfold

Credit: XR Brands

An open mouth means open possibilities. This mouth hood takes away a partner's sense of sight and sound and exposes their mouth to naughty options.

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Best Collar

Kookie International Black Leather Collar

Black Leather Collar
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Best Collar

Kookie International Black Leather Collar

Credit: Kookie International

Put this collar on your special submissive someone and show off your dominance. Fur lining makes it comfy enough for extended wear; a decorative ring makes it easy to leash your partner for bondage play.

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Best Collar With Nipple Clamps

Lovehoney BASICS Collar With Nipple Clamps

Collar With Nipple Clamps
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Best Collar With Nipple Clamps

Lovehoney BASICS Collar With Nipple Clamps

Possess your partner like a prized pet with this bondage collar, then snap the gender-neutral clamps on their nipples for the ultimate combination of pleasure and pain.

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Best Nipple and Clit Clamps

Bondage Boutique Adjustable Nipple and Clit Clamps

Adjustable Nipple and Clit Clamps
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Best Nipple and Clit Clamps

Bondage Boutique Adjustable Nipple and Clit Clamps

Credit: Lovehoney

These aren't just nipple clamps—they connect to the clitoris, as well. With these, the euphoric pain rushes through your partner's body.

11
Best Chest Harness

Lovers Adjustable Chest Harness

Adjustable Chest Harness
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Best Chest Harness

Lovers Adjustable Chest Harness

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This adjustable, leather-like harness fits a range of female-presenting bodies. It has a choker and chrome hardware and will look fantastic worn alone or beneath your clothing for a more subtle effect.

12
Best Cock Ring

Pipedream Products Fantasy C-ringz Ultimate Rabbit Ring

Fantasy C-ringz Ultimate Rabbit Ring
12
Best Cock Ring

Pipedream Products Fantasy C-ringz Ultimate Rabbit Ring

Credit: Pipedream Products

When it comes to cock rings, vibrating versions can add an extra layer of fun to fucking. Vibrations from the ears are surprisingly strong, delivering a steady stream of pleasure to either a clit or balls, depending upon how you wear it.

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Best Electrosex Cock Ring

ELECTRASTIM Electrosex Cock Ring

Electrosex Cock Ring
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Best Electrosex Cock Ring

ELECTRASTIM Electrosex Cock Ring

An ordinary cock ring or even one that vibrates? Not kinky at all. But one that actually shocks your penis? Yes, that is kinky. (Obviously, please use safely and read our article on electro-stimulation before trying it out.)

14
Best Chastity Cage

CB Chastity Devices Pink Male Chastity Cage Kit

Pink Male Chastity Cage Kit
14
Best Chastity Cage

CB Chastity Devices Pink Male Chastity Cage Kit

For those who are only allowed to orgasm when their master says they can.

15
Best Spreader Bar

Sportsheets Spreader Bar With Cuffs

Spreader Bar With Cuffs
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Best Spreader Bar

Sportsheets Spreader Bar With Cuffs

Credit: Sportsheets

Lift your legs or tilt your hips for easy G-spot access with the Enchanted Spreader Bar. This strong, rigid bar has velvety cuffs that make it easy to spread and secure ankles and wrists.

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Best Sex Swing

Bondage Boutique Deluxe Fetish Sex Swing

Deluxe Fetish Sex Swing
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Best Sex Swing

Bondage Boutique Deluxe Fetish Sex Swing

While on the cheaper side for a sex swing, this one still is highly rated on Lovehoney. It's great for couples who don't have a ton of space in their home.

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Best Bondage Kit for Pegging

Lovehoney Take Control Bondage Kit

Take Control Bondage Kit
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Best Bondage Kit for Pegging

Lovehoney Take Control Bondage Kit

This bondage kit is ideal for couples who are interested in BDSM and pegging. (Make sure to read our tips on how to bottom before getting pegged!)

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Best Silicone Cuffs

Doc Johnson Japanese Style Bondage Silicone Cuffs

Japanese Style Bondage Silicone Cuffs
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Best Silicone Cuffs

Doc Johnson Japanese Style Bondage Silicone Cuffs

Credit: Doc Johnson

If you want a simple-to-use restraint that won't break, snag clothes, or irritate the skin, these silicone wrist cuffs are flexible for comfort yet plenty strong enough to restrain.

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Best Bondage Kit for Newbies

Lovehoney Master Mega Bondage Kit

Master Mega Bondage Kit
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Best Bondage Kit for Newbies

Lovehoney Master Mega Bondage Kit

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A great kit that has everything a BDSM newbie could want: cuffs, restraints, a blindfold, ball gag, and more.

20
Best Thigh Swing

Sportsheets Saffron Thigh Sling

Saffron Thigh Sling
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Best Thigh Swing

Sportsheets Saffron Thigh Sling

Credit: Sportsheets

If you like a serious deep-dicking (or strap-on fuck), this sling hoists thighs nice and high or puts feet in a stirrup-like position for a whole new world of angles.

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